Thursday, February 11, 2010

All About Handling Deaths




















All About Handling Deaths
A Book by Maxine Tewsley

Table of Contents
Introduction
How to Make Deaths Feel OK
When You Talk to a Person After Someone Dies
Choosing a Good Spot for the Funrall and the Grave
Sad Facts
All About Deaths in the Authors Family
Introduction
Dear People who are reading this book,
This book is just for sad people to read. This book expresses feeling everywhere. This book is for you.

How to Make Deaths Feel OK
After a death in your family the best thing to do is don't think about the sad things think about the good things. Remember there are more things to do. Like, stay home from the funrall, talk to a person from hospice that might have helped the person that died.

When You Talk to a Person After Someone Dies
When you talk to a person about a death him or her might ask you some questions about sad things and good things and some things might want to make you cry. But it is OK. The people you could talk to are: relitives of that person, people who helped the person and more.

Learn More about talking to kids about handling deaths.

Choosing a Good Spot for the Funrall and the Grave
When you and your family choose a spot to have the funrall and grave the best place to go is where the person grew up. My grandpa's grave is placed in the Oakland Rural grave yard in Youngstown, NY where his sons grew up. My great grandma's grave is placed about 5 blocks away from her childhood house.

Sad Facts
When a person dies you know you will never see them again until you die. (All in sad facts!)

Deaths in the Authors Family
I Maxine Tewsley have had six deaths in my family ever since I was born: my great grandma, my papa, my grandma's good friend and a friend of the family, my cousins Bobby and Joey, and my Aunt Barbara.

Books that my hospice helper and my parents read to me after my papa died:

Nana Upstairs and Nana Downstairs by Tomie dePaola
Tough Boris by Mem Fox
Learn More about other books for kids about handling deaths.

3 comments:

  1. Max: You are such a sweetheart. I hope your story will help someone who is experiencing a death of a close one. You have so much compasion for others not only those who have lost a loved one but for those who are suffering a tragedy (Haiti).
    I love you.

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  2. Maxine, you have experienced the loss of many loved ones during your short life. It is wonderful that you can take that sadness and turn it into something that might help others who are also experiencing a loss. I think you are amazing.
    Love, Mom.

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  3. Oh really Jill I am not! Maxine said this.

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